Lighting & Fashion

Some friends and I have been fashion obsessed lately. We end up talking about fashion, which is fun and the merits of whether to buy or not. More specifically designer or knock-off. There are similarities among buying things to wear and buying things for the home. For example lighting, including table lamps, floor lamps and chandeliers, are relatively same-sy in styles that are currently available. We can see a similar style chandelier made by a variety of companies, just like an "in style" sweater or pant shape. So what makes them different? Why justify paying more for something that seems to be so similar? This fashion blogger explained it very well. It may not be for you, and that's fine, but if you're with me, this is spot on.

There is no “dupe.” Anything worth having can’t — exactly — be replicated. And the details in fashion are fine ones. It’s those teeny little things that make or break. Whatever this “dupe” is, it won’t make you happy in the long term. It won’t! Rather than buy something disposable, skip it or rent it or wait until you can marshal the resources, sell something, or there’s an occasion. The worst result: You buy the dupe and then end up also buying the real one out of lingering dissatisfaction.

And also, I have never not regretted a fast fashion purchase. I look back and none of them ever gave me any long term pleasure. There’s 1 Zara skirt I haven’t parted with and it’s — ok. But there is something about the smell and lack of story of these pieces that makes them joyless. 

Source: Hey Mrs Soloman. Read full article here - worth it for funny Sex & the City clip.

This goes back to my mantra of buy well, buy once. Buy something you truly love and it will bring you joy for many years to come. I understand budget constraints (I have been there) but I believe doing without or with less is better than settling for lesser quality/function/style.

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